A big shout out Hello

Twinny

Currently into my third week off work, waiting for results of recent MRI to determine further degeneration to knee. Previous Arthoscopy failed. To boot, I have also been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia and Hypermobility. I am caught between the severe pain of knees locking and rotating pain in rest of body.
作为以前充满活力和活跃的54岁的全职工作（在我喜欢的工作中）和苛刻的家庭生活，我感到跃升为老年。我真的很努力地应对这一财富的变化，尽管我已经遭受了长期的慢性压力，因此应欢迎喘息。
My main worry is money as I am the main wage earner with Teens just about to start university. Moreover I have been fortunate in having a job I love and work are really understanding but an imminent re-structure leaves me fearful. I have to reconcile myself to a change in job as the physical demands are not conducive to my health.
在年代hort, I am having a crisis of identity. I have gone from a woman who juggled and micro managed all the competing demands in her life, a sociable and energetic person who thrived in the company of others to a person with fatigue, brain fog and limited mobility.
Is there light at the end of the tunnel? I'd love to hear from anyone who has had to make major lifestyle changes to accommodate their arthritis and tips for keeping cheerful.

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Hello Twinny

欢迎to the forum, I am sure you will find advice, support, light relief and friendliness. There are members here who have problems with their knees and ones with fibromyalgia.

Arthritis Care and Arthritis Research UK produce many booklets and factsheets. Here is the links to some which may be useful to you

https://www.arthritiscare.org.uk/do-i-have-arthritis/publications/1208-fatigue-factsheet

https://www.arthritiscare.org.uk/do-i-i-have-thritis/publications/229-fibromyalgia

https://www.arthritiscare.org.uk/do-i-have-arthritis/publications/225-working-with-arthritis

If you feel it would be beneficial to talk to someone who understands your problems Arthritis Care has a freephone helpline, 0808 800 4050.

I am one of the moderation team and we all have one or more of the arthritis "hangers on" or look after family members who have the same.

Look forward to seeing you on this forum again.
Best wishes

克里斯克

dreamdaisy

Hello, it's nice to meet you but I am sorry you have had to find us. I began with one affected knee back in 1997 when I was 37, things have progressed since then to around forty affected joints but the essential me remains the same, arthritis won't change that because I won't let it.

I started with psoriatic arthritis, the joint damage that caused has led to osteo: some joints have one, some the other and others both. The only benefit I claim is DLA and I was able to carry on working for seventeen years despite things deteriorating at a steady rate: being self-employed was a bonus.

I spotted your post by chance, I hope others do too but this tends to be a quieter part of the forum, most look in on the Living With Arthritis board. I wish you well. DD

StickyWicket

Twinny写道：

我从一个杂耍和微观的女人中脱颖而出，管理着她一生中的所有竞争要求，一个社交且充满活力的人，在他人的陪伴下蓬勃发展，到一个疲劳，脑雾和有限的流动性的人。
Is there light at the end of the tunnel? I'd love to hear from anyone who has had to make major lifestyle changes to accommodate their arthritis and tips for keeping cheerful.

You are still that woman, Twinny. She's just having a breather
Your juggling and micro-managing skills are going to be very useful in dealing with arthritis but what you can't do is try to pretend it doesn't exist or doesn't matter. You have to factor in rest time.

My lifestyle changes were easier than yours as I got RA at 15. University had its difficult moments but nowhere near as difficult as when the kids rocked upDevelop strategies. Don't be proud. Buy gadgets and never refuse help. Delegate to those teenagers of yours. It's good for them whether they like it or not. (Probably not.)

I can't help on the money front as we never had much. I had to stop working after No 1 son was born and never managed to get back to paid work. I've done some very interesting voluntary work though.

Twinny

Thanks again for your thoughtful replies. Great to touch base with others who understand the challenges of arthritis. I wish you well.
Twinny